Saturday, March 27, 2010

Let's Get It Started...


So last night I hosted my best friend, her momma and the bridesmaids.  Can I just say upfront how excited I am.  First of all we have the most fun together, we are loud, we can't stop laughing and joking around but then we all know we have each other's backs.  As we sat and hung out I couldn't help but think what an intricate thing a bridal party is.  Each and everyone having their own responsibility; a certain role to play to make the whole planning process a little less stressful.

We get each other.  And I know that's simple, but it's so true.  Each one of us bring something to the table.  Whether it's goofiness, laughter, joy, patience, seriousness, observance, or even just a shoulder to lean on.  Thank God for girls who you view as sisters, and are able to get you through the tough and crazy days...

Looking forward to all the excitement which is a wedding...I'll keep you updated about our shenanigans...

Love and Joyful Peace,
G

Monday, March 22, 2010

Common Bond...



So I was so sad tonight because it was the last meeting for my Stained bible study group.  But we all went to dinner discussing how and when we could meet again.  We all felt the urgency to create and continue a time for each other.

Accountability is an amazing thing.  These girls and I have met for over 6 months and we all click.  The dynamic our group has is unbelievable and the common bond is that of Christ.  I often wondered if any of us would've met if we didn't have our Lord as the common denominator.  That's the amazing thing about God.  He totally constructs the world around us; knowing each individual He will place in every nook and cranny of our lives.  It's amazing to know we have a God who cares so much about us that He gives us precious brothers and sisters.

I love these girls with all my heart, and am extremely blessed to call them sisters and friends.  I get the feeling that we will stay close for a long time.  Because honestly we would all have withdraws from our random discussions, times of laughter, tears and smiles.  Love you ladies!

Love and Amazing Peace,
G

Sunday, March 21, 2010

You Buggin'...


Do you ever get the feeling you're bugging someone?  Sometimes I feel like I do that, so I back off and then someone gets mad at me because I'm not around as much.

I'm sorry, but I thought you needed space?  Anyhow I don't like to be smothered so I figured you don't like to be as well...so much for thinking I had my stuff together...sheesh...I'm gonna try harder...

Love and (hoped for) Peace,
G

Saturday, March 20, 2010

10 Ways To Be An Even Better Friend...


So I had found this article in GLAMOUR Magazine about a year ago, and had stashed it somewhere safe.  I originally wanted to photocopy it and frame it for my two closest girlfriends; but completely forgot about it in the disaster which is my room.

So I finally found the article under the mounds of clothes, jewelry and outdated magazines and wanted to share it with you all.  I don't necessarily agree with all of it, but there are plenty in here that definitely deserve a gold star.  Let me know what you think...

10 Way To Be An Even Better Friend:

1.  If she's crazy about him, pretend he's your brother and never date him.  Ever.

2.  Gossip, yes, but don't get mean.  She'll wonder whether you're talking that way about her to everyone else.

3.  If she's got a poppy seed in her teeth, mascara under her eyes or deodorant on her sweater, tell her.

4.  Do not-repeat, do not-side with her mother.

5.  Keep her ring size filed away in case you-know-who calls for advice about you-know-what.

6.  Have that scary fight about how she's been bugging you.  If you can go there for a guy, you can for her, too.

7.  Oh, just wear the bridesmaid's dress.

8.  Remind her that she wasn't that into him, either.

9.  See straight through her attempts at cool perfection and love her more for the weaknesses she's trying to hide.

10.  When the guy dumps her, the cat gets cancer, the job explodes, SIMPLY BE THERE...


Love and Peace,
G

Friday, March 19, 2010

Shuteye...



It's official...I'm completely and utterly exhausted.

I'm convinced that being tired doesn't just have to be physically tired; but I am at my most tired when I am mentally and spiritually exhausted.  You see when all your efforts are run-down all at once it's hard to recover.

I'm running on empty; and no matter how much I may take a day off here and there, is it really a day off?  Do I really shut-off my mind to all technology, all distractions, heck even all relationships just for one day?

So I'm declaring one day next week a "ME" Day.  I'm gonna go to my favorite spot, turn-off my phone, stay there all day and answer to no one but myself.  Unless of course some emergency pops up and then you can reach me.  But time and again, a little shuteye from the world does a soul good....

...especially mine!

Love and (much needed) Peace,
G

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

Too Much...


Do you feel that life can often be too much?  Like you can't catch a break?  I feel like lately I'm in catch-up mode.  That when I finish one thing, it's onto the next.  But there's little break or rest in between...

I feel like I need a vacation; a DAY just to myself or even with my family.  I know it can be selfish to get away in such a hurry or angst, but I guess for just one day I don't mind.  Sometimes I feel like my brain needs to reset itself and start all-over.  Ever feel that way?!

Anyhow sorry for the Debbie Downer type of blog today, but I guess if I'm not brutally honest with you all, what kind of person would I be?  A fake?  Any ideas?

Love and (hopefully) Peace,
G

Monday, March 15, 2010

It's the Imperfections...


Today I got the chance to record for the first time.  And although it was full of laughter and uncertainty; it was also weird to hear my voice through the booming speakers.  You have ideas of how you sound, and manipulate your mind to believe certain things about yourself.  For the first time I appreciated the imperfections in my voice, as well as the things which I can always work on.  Is it dangerous to listen to yourself?  Or is it an amazing epiphony to realize that it's a good thing to not sound exactly like Britney, Beyonce, or Gaga.

To me; singing in the corner of a coffeeshop while people study, socialize or go on first dates is what I am completely content with.  And not only that, but to have the quirks in which others don't have is quite rejuvenating as well as freeing...Worship pushes me to reach higher, dig deeper as well as check always the heart from which notes pour forth.

Thank you to Ray for giving me the encouragement as well as the acknowledgement that being different is beautiful as well as inspiring.  Thank you for helping me realize another ounce of courage I never knew I had...

I'm looking forward to writing songs as well as recording a few more for a demo.  With God all things(including the courage to sing) is definitely possible!

Love and Peace,
G

Sunday, March 14, 2010

Another Day, Another Blog...

So as you can see, I started my own personal blog...

I'm excited about it, but also reminded that I need to keep up with it...

I'll update you with what's happening as much as possible...

Talk to you soon...G